Overcoming Inertia: Moving
Forward.
How does inertia
prevent us from making the changes necessary to achieve greater
job satisfaction?
You find inertia in a
dictionary defined as resistance or disinclination to motion,
action or change. In career terms, inertia translates as our
fear of change, experiencing failure and disapproval or fear of
the new and unfamiliar. Inertia can keep us in jobs for which we
have lost our enthusiasm and committment, while we try to
justify to ourselves the reasons why we should stay.
Stress from overwork,
lack of support, boredom and the gnawing feeling that we are not
being true to our values can result in anxiety, worry and
depression. This in turn can reinforce the feeling that nothing
is likely to change and we end up in a long-term rut.
So, how do we break
free from this self-defeating behaviour? It is important not to
think like a victim. This requires a certain moral courage to
rise above the limitations of the present through creating a
mental image of a better future and being open to taking new
directions. It is easy to blame employers, colleagues, family
and life itself for our current state of affairs. The decision
to take responsibility to make better progress however will
begin to attract the events and the people who can help you to
realize your vision. Taking small yet decisive steps will begin
moving you in a more positive direction.
What changes or
improvements do you want to make? Have you reached the limits of
personal or career growth with your present employer? Are you
incompatible with the people or culture? Is it the physical
working environment or the time it takes to get there? Do you
need to improve your education or take special training? Decide
on your priorities then think about the steps needed to achieve
your goal. Once you have identified your issues then you need to
draw up a plan for action The act of planning itself will draw
your attention away from your frustrations to focus on the
possibilities and options. Shifting your focus to more positive
tasks that serve your interests will help reduce your anxiety
about the present.
Don’t expect to achieve
everything at once. We become disillusioned when we try to force
progress and find that instant solutions aren’t available or
practical. Our society cultivates the ideas of quick fixes and
fast, fast relief. When it comes to making career or job changes
with long-term benefits in mind, there is often a different time
frame and dynamic involved.
Impatience with the
present situation can cause us to act impulsively and to make
short-sighted decisions that affect long-range interests. Listen
to inner guidance and be alert to the promptings of your
intuition. The intention to follow your highest interest will
often produce ideas and thoughts that come "out of the blue" and
suggest actions and solutions that you haven’t thought of
before. If you trust in this process, you will receive the
insight you need to make the progress you want.
The decision then
becomes how much effort and potential discomfort are you willing
to accept to make the improvements you’ve decided upon? Whenever
we make important changes there is always some price we have to
pay. Accepting that reality helps us release the energies we
need to sustain our efforts over the long haul.
You may experience
continued inner resistance to change. This is normal as you are
creating new patterns of action and thinking. Keep your goal
foremost in mind. Exercise patience with yourself, with others
who may question your decision and with the process itself.
Your commitment to
improving your prospects and your willingness to make the
efforts necessary will generate the right solutions at the right
time.
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